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Achieving an orgasm can be elusive for a lot of women. But it can be as simple as time, tenderness, and knowing how to stimulate her sweet spots.
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In the spring-fever spirit, Brooklyn-based sexual-wellness darling Maude is releasing two of its bestselling goodies in a sultry new scent no. As the party was winding down, I hooked up with a woman I met earlier in the night. But since I felt like a socially awkward teenager in her presence, I hid from her for a lot of the party. Anyway, the other night he finally came home with me.
I came. So I'd say you should consider your unexpected orgasms divine blessings, not sources for embarrassment.
So no, you're not a freak. That's why you could come just by making out and sitting on Sean's lap after what sounds like literally years of fantasizing about him. She grabbed my hand and led me to a bed. We were just making out and gyrating, and all of a sudden I felt an orgasm coming and thought, "Oh shit.
And you're right: Some women have anorgasmia and can't reach orgasm at all.
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Up until recently, we've just been good friends with an unspoken desire to fuck each other's brains out. Hey Refinery29.
There's this guy named Sean who I've had sexual tension with for years. I was at a play sex partyso I had been around public sex for literally hours — which means I was very horny.
Our brains were so aroused that our genitals climaxed like the chorus in a Katy Perry song. We made out for a long time, but never took off our underwear — and I came from dry humping alone. Burn the. You must be magic. Simply sitting next to him in public gets me wet.
Many straight men, in particular, are obsessed with wanting to get women off, since it makes them feel like they're good in bed. And being good in bed can be an incredible ego boost for anyone, not just straight men. Should this happen again with Sean, I think it's a great idea to tell him that he made you come so quickly — he'll be flattered. If you're a freak, I'm a freak.
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But I usually need intense direct clitoral stimulation with a hand or vibrator to get off. Well, you might be, but that's a good thing. To make sure that we're not just both freaks, I asked a doctor if it's normal to come without direct genital stimulation.
I realize that may sound like every woman's dream, and is a shitty thing to complain about when a lot of women can't have an orgasm at all, but I have to ask: Is this normal or am I a freak?
Well, the female equivalent of it. She wasn't even rubbing my clit!
I was so attracted to her, it was as if I made her up in my head. I jizzed my pants. This has happened to me once or twice before in my life. Usually, I just try to pretend like it didn't happen and continue hooking up like I did recently with Seanbecause coming this quickly seems a little embarrassing.
Not too long ago, something similar happened to me. And since people with vaginas are capable of multiple orgasmsafter you tell him and continue hooking up, you could even come again. While I understand your mortification, there's no reason to feel embarrassed. The other night, something embarrassing happened.
Also, it's worth mentioning that some women can come simply from nipple stimulationso if your partner was fondling your breasts or nipples, that may have also contributed to your serendipitous orgasm. Granted, dry humping does involve some genital stimulation, so it's not a perfect parallel to your story. She has good news: We're normal!
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It's also why I was able to have an orgasm while making out and gyrating with the woman of my dreams, even though I usually need much more than that to get off. I thought our sexual tension would cause the place to explode should we act on it. I'll be in a sexual situation and be so turned on that I'll have an orgasm before anything even happens below the belt. Upgrading your sex toy game just got more affordable.
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I remember thinking, "I can't talk to this person, because I'm going to jizz myself the second she touches me. We first began chatting about art and hit it off right away. Like, you could cut it with a knife. I mean, I came before we even really got to foreplay, let alone sex.
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So, after I came, I told my new friend, "Oh my god, I came already. His hands weren't even on my clit. We were making out on my couch, and I was sitting on his lap. Love, Sophie.