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Casual sex boasts the benefits of being a modern woman: freedom, confidence, independence.
I know that I can be a strong and independent woman no matter what, but depending on a man for casual sex feels less independent. Requests as small as a faster response over text and requests for more intimacy can be equally too scary to ask for — I mean what if you spook them out of the hookup all together?
There are so many nuances in a relationship of this kind, and so many social norms that keep us from getting what we want. In an ideal world a casual hookup would mean mutual dependence on each other for sex — so why does it never feel mutual? I have never felt that I have the power, but perhaps thinking of a relationship in terms of power is problematic in itself.
Want to keep up with HCBU? If not, however, I need to have the maturity and foresight to remove myself from that relationship.
Fair warning, however, I do have a particularly cynical view of men, and especially college men. Make sure to like us on Facebookfollow us on Instagramcheck out our Pinterest board, and read our latest Tweets!
Am I selling myself short? Is it even possible to have that equality within a casual hookup, and how do we achieve it?
I suppose that you, reader, are following along now because you have similar questions. Does that make the relationship less casual?